Let's talk about Sex

I have always loved, and been fascinated by Sex. The ending of my marriage, which came about largely as a consequence of a severe lack of intimacy, was essentially the beginning of my journey to understanding and appreciating Sex as a core human need; Sex as a birthright; Sex as an expression of one's Self on all levels - physical, emotional and spiritual. So much in the realm of Sex is still considered taboo, despite waves of liberalisation of sexual preference and gender roles. As a society we have preconceived ideas of what is considered "acceptable" in the bedroom, which often does not coincide with the much raunchier ongoings in our heads. But who makes these rules and why do we follow them? I strongly believe that freedom of sexual expression is paramount in supporting mental and emotional health of individuals and that this deep intimacy is a strong underpin of lasting relationships. My wish is for couples and sex partners to feel secure enough to lay their deepest desires out on the table without fear of judgement, to ultimately be having the kind of Sex they want. And lots of it!